THE DIVORCE COMPOSURE COACH

Divorce is Messy.

Don't Let Emotions
Hijack the Outcome.

Emotional reactivity is one of the most expensive mistakes people make during divorce, mediation, and court. Most don't realize it's happening until the damage is done.

Jeanine works with individuals facing divorce, court, mediation, and high-conflict situations and with the attorneys and professionals who support them.

AnchorIt™

AnchorIt™ is an AI-powered communication tool designed for high-conflict situations.

It cleans up the messages you send, so they get the meaning, not the mood. And it breaks down the ones you get - what actually needs a response, what doesn't, and why. So you read the message, not the rage bait.

Reduce emotional reactivity before it impacts relationships,

negotiations, or legal outcomes. TRY IT NOW

ABOUT JEANINE

Jeanine Tripodi

The Divorce Composure Coach

Jeanine Tripodi is an Emotional Reactivity Consultant, collaborative divorce communication coach, and family law mediator who built her entire body of work around one belief: how you show up in high conflict exchanges determines every outcome that follows.

She created The Composure Codes™ and AnchorIt™ because the people who stay composed in divorce protect more - their credibility, their finances, and their future.

This isn't therapy. It's applied emotional mastery when it counts.

AS SEEN ON

The damage is done before most people know it's happening.

You can't think your way out of a reaction. It moves faster than that. What drives it lives underneath the surface, and until you understand what's there, it will keep showing up in the moments that matter most.

01 Credibility collapses under pressure

One reactive moment in court or mediation hands the other side exactly what they need.

02 Legal strategy fails to execute

Attorneys can't implement strategy when clients are emotionally dysregulated.

03 Financial outcomes suffer

Reactive communication costs money; in negotiations, agreements, and settlements.

04 Every message becomes a liability

What gets sent in a reactive state becomes evidence, ammunition, and regret.

Composure Changes Everything

A free, one-time consult call gives you clarity on whether this support is the right fit, and how to regain control before your next high-stakes moment.

Work With Jeanine

There's a path here for you.

Whether you need a program, a tool, a coach, or a mediator - find your entry point below.

The Composure Codes

Walk in steady. Protect your credibility, your finances, and your future.

Signature subconscious reprogramming program for composure in court, mediation, and deposition.

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AnchorIt

One reactive message can shift everything. AnchorIt™ stops that before it happens.

Subscription communication tool. Refines outgoing messages. Strips noise from incoming ones.

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Private Coaching

Walk out of high-stakes moments with no regrets and no second-guessing.

One-on-One, built around what you're facing right now. Text/Voice support between sessions.

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Collaborative Communication Coach

Collaborative Divorce gives you the freedom to design your family's next chapter.

CPP-trained in the collaborative model, Jeanine works alongside attorneys and clients to reduce emotional flooding, interrupt the communication patterns that stall progress, and maintain the psychological safety the process depends on. She stabilizes the human side so the legal work can get done.

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Family Law Mediator

When you keep a judge out of it, you keep control of it.

Jeanine brings a deep understanding of what keeps people stuck at the table and how to move them through it. Clients also have access to a private portal built to support the process between sessions, not just during them. The result is mediation that feels structured, supported, and built around resolution.

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Resources

Two minutes. Find out exactly where you're most likely to lose your grip.

Free quiz, blogs, downloads, and other resources. Start here if you aren't sure where to go.

Take the Quiz

Download the Guide: 7 Ways to Stay Calm

The outcomes speak for themselves.

Not sure where to start? Start here.

Schedule a Free Call Now

Get clarity on whether this work is the right fit and what to do next.

In 20 minutes you'll walk away knowing:

  • Whether composure coaching, mediation, or collaborative support fits your situation

  • What's most likely driving your reactivity right now and where it's costing you

  • Which entry point makes the most sense given your timeline and what's ahead

  • What working with Jeanine actually looks like day to day

No pressure. No pitch. Just a clear next step.

For Attorneys

Jeanine supports clients outside the legal process so emotions don't interfere with legal strategy or execution. When clients are steady, they protect their credibility, financial interests, and long-term outcomes.

Her role is simple and precise - keep emotions from derailing the case so attorneys can focus on the legal work that matters most.

Regulated clients implement legal strategy

Emotionally steady clients follow guidance, meet deadlines, and make decisions from clarity allowing legal strategy to execute as intended.

Fewer reactive disruptions and delays

Reduced reactivity means clearer communication, fewer crises, and less time spent managing preventable disruptions that pull attorneys away from legal work.

Stronger performance in mediation, deposition, and court

Composed clients present as more credible and focused, protecting negotiation, testimony, and overall case presentation when it counts.

Will your reactions cost you in court?

Two minutes. Instant results. Find out exactly where you're most likely to lose your grip under pressure.


What will your client's reactions cost them?

Forward this to any client at risk. Two minutes. Eye-opening results.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this therapy?

This isn't therapy, and it doesn't replace it. What Jeanine offers is targeted support using subconscious tools, hypnotherapy, and emotional coaching to help you stay calm and clear when you need it most. It's fast-acting, forward-moving, and focused on how you show up in high-pressure moments.

What if I'm afraid I'll break down or forget everything?

That's exactly what this is for. We work directly with your nervous system and subconscious patterns so you can regulate your emotions and stay present even when things get hard. You'll walk in with calm, clarity, and the tools to hold your ground.

What if I don't know what I wanna say yet?

You're not alone. So many people walk into legal processes unsure of their own voice. That's part of what gets uncovered - your truth, your end game, and what you really want to say without getting emotionally hijacked in the moment.

Do I have to be going through a divorce to use this?

Not at all. Jeanine has supported clients through custody cases, post-divorce issues, mediation, depositions, and high-conflict communication outside of court. If you're facing a situation that's emotionally charged, this support can help.

Is this confidential?

Absolutely. Everything discussed is private. It is sometimes helpful to speak with your lawyer, but only with your permission. This is a safe, judgment-free space to get the support needed to show up strong. That said, like all practitioners, Jeanine is required to report any disclosure of child abuse, neglect, or credible risk of harm to yourself or others. Outside of legal obligations, everything stays between you.

Can you work with both parties in a case?

It depends on the context. For private coaching and The Composure Codes™ program, Jeanine works with one party per case and conducts conflict checks to ensure both sides are never being supported simultaneously - this protects emotional safety and maintains full trust on both sides.

However, in collaborative divorce cases, mediation, and by specific request, Jeanine does work with both parties. In those settings, neutrality is part of the role and both parties benefit from having the same steady, skilled support in the room.

If you're unsure whether your situation qualifies, the discovery call is the right place to sort that out.

How far in advance should I start?

Ideally, give yourself at least four weeks before your court or mediation date though Jeanine has supported clients on shorter timelines. The earlier you start, the more time there is to integrate the tools. That said, even one session can make a meaningful difference.

What if I'm already working with a therapist?

This work complements therapy beautifully and the two serve very different purposes. Therapy processes the past - working through trauma, grief, and the dee per emotional layers of what you've experienced. What Jeanine does is forward-focused. Rather than processing what happened, the work reframes the subconscious architecture and patterning that drives how you respond today - so you show up differently in the moments that are still ahead of you. If you're already doing the healing work with a therapist, this is what prepares you for the high-stakes moments that healing alone doesn't train you for.

Where are you located and do you work with clients outside of Arizona?

Jeanine is based in Gilbert, Arizona and works with clients throughout the Phoenix metro area including Scottsdale, Tempe, Mesa, and Chandler - as well as clients across the US and internationally online. Programs are available virtually.

What is the Composure Codes™?

The Composure Codes™ is Jeanine's proprietary methodology for emotional regulation and communication effectiveness under pressure. It underlies everything she offers - from the AnchorIt™ tool to private coaching to her work in mediation and collaborative divorce cases. It draws on subconscious reprogramming, hypnotherapy, and applied communication training to help people stay composed when the stakes are highest.

What is AnchorIt™?

AnchorIt™ is a subscription-based communication tool built on The Composure Codes™ framework. It works in two directions - it refines the messages you're about to send so they land with clarity and intention rather than emotion, and it analyzes the messages you receive so you can see exactly what actually needs a response and what doesn't. One reactive message during divorce can shift credibility, legal strategy, and financial outcomes. AnchorIt™ sits between the impulse and the send button. It includes a 14-day free trial so you can experience it before committing to a subscription.

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